Avery was born September 22nd, 2011. A few short weeks after she was born she was taken to the hospital with substantial injuries which included a skull fracture from an injury sustained in a bath tub. Avery was placed with my family (the Risen’s) the day after these injuries and remained in our home until mid May of 2015. The Hamilton County Courts and Jobs and Family Services worked with Avery’s mother to reunite them both. As I can not speak in depth about the case I can tell you that Avery was a very loving and intelligent child. She was old beyond her years. She had a deep understanding of her surroundings.
Avery was the bravest little girl I knew. She accepted things that no child should. She was strong but on August 1st of 2016 Avery died in the early afternoon from critical injuries while in her mother’s care. Her mother was arrested August 10th, 2016 and later charged with three counts of murder and endangerment.
Avery was loved very much by our family and although she resided with my husband and myself, she had many people in this family that took care of her continually through her life. They loved her and fought for her as we did.
Part of Avery’s story has been told on local news channels in Cincinnati. Channels 9, 5, 12, 19 and 64. Her story has been written in newspapers such as the Enquirer. It unfortunately comes too late. A child’s such as Avery always comes too late.
In the summer of 2016 I started to write her biography. I did so with hopes that it may shed light on her case but it too has become too late. My intentions are to finish that biography, though the ending is what I fear most.
To parents, grandparents and caregivers of children. Let me express that there is no pain that could ever compare to this. In days, months and maybe years. You will learn more about Avery. You will learn about the little girl we loved so much and we pray through her death we may change certain aspects of the way children are being taken care of by persons put in place to do so.
We have a long road a head of us. Many battles. We do not get to bury our child and move on. We will relive this horrific time for all eternity.
This memorial web site is a small step in keeping Avery “Cupcake” Hobbs memory alive and for those that wonder about her name. A year ago during a visit with Avery she was very confused about who she was. She was being told that she was not a Hobbs. She was saddened and upset. She asked me who she was. Saying ” Mama, who am I?” I asked her who she wanted to be. She replied “Mama, I want to be your cupcake, I want to be your baby forever”. I told her that “Cupcake” was her name. Avery “Cupcake” Hobbs and that she will be our baby forever. If you asked her who she was. She would reply confidentially, “I am Cupcake!”
A name may not mean much to some. In Avery’s life. Everything she loved was taken away and her name was her only connection to those she loved dearly. It was the only thing she could hold on to. A little factor that kept her strong, so she could keep moving forward one day at a time so that she could be near the people she loved. She was proud to be a Hobbs. She was proud to be her father’s daughter. She was proud to be my Cupcake & her Pappy’s dear. To run around the town with her Papa & Nana. To be her Uncle Tot’s and Aunt Gigi’s “Little Ry~Ry”. Just a name. It was her world & it is our intentions that no one will every forget her.